Gentle, consent-led sessions to help you connect with pleasure, ease and confidence.
queer-centred sexological bodywork, erotic education, Wheel of Consent ® coaching
“I no longer feel like my body has betrayed me, and I am really enjoying sex again. One of the best journeys I have been on.”
Client of Abundant Body
After working through changes in her body
40+
years in healthcare and sexual health
100%
sessions guided by you, at your pace
Free
introductory call before you commit
Four ways to work together.
Every offering is co-created and led by your body and your choices. The focus is always your exploration, pleasure and learning.
Sexological bodywork
One-to-one sessions can be relaxing, comforting, erotic, playful, or educational. We work with breath, movement, sound, and touch, including support for pain, pleasure, and conditions such as vaginismus.
Workshops & small groups
One-off workshops and small group programs across a range of topics, including the Wheel of Consent. Tailored to your group on request.
Wheel of Consent®
A practice for noticing what you want, who the touch is for, and practising asking for what you want and declining what you don't.
Speaking & facilitation
Guest speaking, solo or on panels, and facilitation for conferences, community groups, and workplaces, drawing on decades of community and sexual health experience.
Forty+ years of care, now in one room with you.
Through my practice, Abundant Body, I work as a sexological bodyworker, erotic coach and sex educator, drawing on a background in nursing, health counselling and sexual and reproductive health.
You do not need to read my whole CV to trust me. I bring my own experience of living queer, feminist and female in the world, and I try to work with compassion, gratitude, accountability and presence. And pleasure.
Consent, privacy and safety guide everything I do.
In their own words.
Stella has a knack for keeping me present and tuning into my own body. She brings joy and enthusiasm whilst holding a very safe space, and I trust her implicitly.
Client of Abundant Body
Sexological bodywork
One of the most ethical, professional and safe practitioners I have encountered. She helps clients feel at ease and gently explore through their body. I have no hesitation in recommending her.
Tanya Koens
Sexologist, Sydney (referrer)
I arrived not sure what to expect, and she made me feel at ease straight away. I left feeling like I was floating on air, much more connected to my body and sexuality. Like a massage for my soul.
Client of Abundant Body
First session
I started because I was hating on my changing, aging body. I no longer feel like my body has betrayed me and I am really enjoying sex again.
Client of Abundant Body
Sexological bodywork
An engaging and informative presenter. In her Vulvarama workshop she got everyone involved in a relaxed, easy way, and it was loads of fun.
Workshop participant
Vulvarama Wonderland
A safe and creative space lifted by the voices of people with vulvas. Full of the kind of wisdom you do not find in an anatomy text, a celebration of vulva owners.
Workshop participant
Vulvarama Wonderland
Something in your body is asking for attention.
✦ You want to feel at home in your body again, and more connected to your own pleasure.
✦ Sex has felt disconnected, painful, or full of pressure, and you want that to change.
✦ You are navigating scars, vaginismus, menopause, or other changes in your body.
✦ You want to explore desire, gender, or sensation with curiosity and no shame.
✦ You are queer, trans, or gender diverse and want a practitioner who gets it.
✦ You would like to practice asking for what you want and receiving it safely.
Wherever you are starting from, we go at your pace.
Questions people often ask first.
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Sessions are co-created and guided by your body. They might involve talking, breath, movement, sound and touch, including self touch and, where you choose it, practitioner touch. There is no right way, and you can pause or change direction at any time.
Read my Conduct & Ethics page.
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Most of my sessions are conducted online. In some circumstances I will meet at a mutually agreed location, including at your home.
There are surprising opportunities in both online and in-person, and some limitations in each as well. Neither is necessarily better or worse, and its about personal preference as well. -
Whatever feels right for you. Comfortable, loose clothes are useful but not essential, and you decide what to leave on or take off at each session.
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Yes. Personal details and brief, securely stored session notes are kept private and confidential. I will not contact anyone else without your permission, unless required by law.
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Sexological bodywork is not currently claimable on health insurance.
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Yes. As a participant it becomes a pairs or small group session; as a support person they would sit nearby. Talk to me first if you are unsure.
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No referral is needed. You can begin any time by booking a free introductory call.Item description
Start with a free call.
Every new client begins with a conversation on Zoom. We see if we are a good fit, and you ask me anything. No referral needed.